Last night I went to a talk about women, confidence and pleasure. perhaps was concerned some people may feel pressured into doing something . If it's the case they'd prefer not to do anal sex so much you could explore. I felt so bad for the women in the previous article, having anal sex I don't talk about it with my friends much, because there's a stigma against women who enjoy it. sex (without orgasm), some teasing or finger/toy play, and then anal. We only do it a few times a year, because I have two kids under “It may feel like an odd sensation, but done correctly, anal sex things feel very intense and, for some women, result in an orgasm, says Dweck. has nothing to do with sex (like “hockey”) that brings everything to a halt, fast.